# All Done PECS and 5 More First-Word Cards

> The all done PECS card is often a toddler's first word, and one of 6 first-word cards that halved our meltdowns. Print your own set free.

By Nora Hayes · July 2, 2026 · Rosy & Hush
Source: https://rosyandhush.com/special-needs/communication/want-need-done

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An all done PECS card is a small picture your kid hands you to say "I'm finished" without screaming it, and it leans on real evidence: [PECS is the only AAC system Pediatrics (2012) classified as evidence-based for autism](https://pecsusa.com/pecs/), per Pyramid Educational Consultants.

I'm Nora Hayes, a former preschool aide raising an autistic 7-year-old, and these six cards (I want, I need, break, eat, more, and all done) are the ones I'd hand a worn-out parent first, because they cover the wants and needs behind most toddler blowups.

Below I'll walk you through what each card does, when your kid is ready for them, and how to get a set in your hands tonight, printed at the kitchen table or bought ready-made.

## What the 'All Done' PECS Card Actually Is

### The 'all done' card, defined

The all done PECS card is a single graphic symbol your child picks up and hands to you to say: this is finished. That's the whole mechanic. One picture, one exchange, one clear message.

[The picture exchange communication system](https://pecs.com/picture-exchange-communication-system-pecs/) was developed in 1985 by Andy Bondy and Lori Frost at the Delaware Autism Program around one act: hand a picture to a communicative partner, and they respond. The all done icon typically shows a red circle with a line through it, or two hands pushing outward, a visual that reads as "stop" or "finished" even before a child has words for it.

This card falls under requesting in [communication social skills](/special-needs/communication) broadly: your child is not labeling the activity, they're acting on it.

![Toddler handing an 'all done' PECS card to a parent at the end of a meal](./images/want-need-done/toddler-handing-an-all-done-pecs-card-to-a-parent-at-the-end-of-a-meal-5e2ac9ce.webp)

### Why 'all done' is often the first card that sticks

Two motivators drive toddler communication:

- Getting more of something they love (nice, but not urgent)
- Getting out of something they hate (urgent, every time)

Without a working way to say "stop":

- Crying, hitting, or shutting down fill the gap
- The all done exchange hands them a working exit instead
- Functional communication replaces the behavior that was doing the job before

**The research backs this up.**

[Research on functional communication training](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3608527/), which includes picture-card exchanges for escape exactly like the all done card, found an average 90% reduction in problem behaviors like aggression and self-injury across multiple studies over a 5 to 10 month treatment span. The all done PECS card isn't a formal behavioral intervention when you're using it at the dinner table. But the principle holds: give the child a working way out, and they rarely need to fight their way out.

## The 6 First-Word Cards That Do the Heavy Lifting

Not every word is worth a card on day one. These six pull the most weight because each one hands your toddler a way to act on a feeling instead of melting under it.

![Six first-word PECS cards laid out in a row: I want, I need, break, all done, eat, and more](./images/want-need-done/six-first-word-pecs-cards-laid-out-in-a-row-i-want-i-need-break-all-done-eat-and-more-9017820f.webp)

### 'I want' and 'I need': the requests that unlock everything

Start here. A child who can hand you an "I want" card has just traded pointing and crying for an actual request, and that swap changes the whole dynamic. Instead of guessing why June is fussing at the snack cupboard, she gives me a picture and tells me.

That first exchange teaches the rule underneath all of this: a symbol gets you the thing you want. "I need" works the same way for the stuff that isn't a treat but still matters, like a blanket or a turn on the swing.

The trick is to anchor these cards to a real motivator. Pair the picture exchange with a preferred item your kid already loves, and the requesting clicks fast. No favorite involved, and the functional communication has nothing to push against.

### 'Break' and 'I need a break': heading off overload

The other cards on the board get your kid something they want. This one gives them the words to say "this is too much" before it tips over, which means they can come back to the task instead of shutting down completely.

A break card gives a kid a way to say "this is too much" before the room gets too loud, the texture gets too gross, or the task runs too long. It's self-advocacy in one picture. You catch the buildup, hand them the option, and let them step away instead of escalating.

This isn't a soft idea. As a behavioral intervention, teaching a child to exchange a "break, please" picture instead of acting out to escape a task is documented practice, including in [federal research on functional communication training](https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/ED595334.pdf) from the U.S. Department of Education. Among visual supports, a break card earns its spot.

### 'Eat,' 'more,' and 'all done': the mealtime trio

Meals are where a lot of toddler battles live, so these three graphic symbols hand your kid the controls. The eat icon starts it. They tell you they're hungry instead of arching their back in the highchair while you guess.

"More" runs the middle. A toddler who can request another bite of the good stuff stays in it longer, and it's an easy win because the food is its own reinforcer. The requesting is built right in.

"All done" ends it cleanly, no plate on the floor required. Together they hand over the start, the middle, and the stop of a meal, and that small bit of control through picture exchange does more for functional communication than any "two more bites" ever did. If you want the wider set, here's our list of [12 communication cards every nonverbal toddler](/special-needs/communication/12-communication-cards-every-nonverbal-toddler) can use.

## How These Cards Cut Meltdowns Before They Start

Most meltdowns don't arrive without warning. There's a moment before the storm: the raised shoulders, the wandering eyes, the kid who goes still right before they blow. The problem is that a child who can't speak yet has no way to flag that moment for you. So it passes, unaddressed, and you both end up on the floor.

That's the gap picture exchange fills. When a child learns to hand you a break card before they're already spinning out, they're doing something significant: spontaneous communication at the exact second it matters. They're not waiting for you to guess. They're not melting down to get their message across. They're using visual supports to say *I need out* before the window closes.

**The behavior goes down because the need gets met.**

After a week of consistent card use, most parents notice the same shift: fewer explosions at transition time, more reach-and-hand moments before the peak. The behavioral intervention almost becomes secondary, because the communication does the work.

For parents, this translates to something practical. Put a [feelings chart](/special-needs/communication/feelings-chart-toddlers-dont-have-words) near the card display so a child who can recognize *scared* or *angry* has a second channel alongside the cards. And if your kid tends to hit overload at transitions, a build calm down corner card set pairs naturally with the break card. One signals the need; the other gives somewhere to land.

## When Your Toddler Is Ready to Start

The short version: if your kid wants something they can't ask for, they're ready. You don't wait for a word count. Here's how the timing actually shakes out, from the first sounds to the moment a picture card starts pulling its weight.

### Typical first words vs. first picture cards

Think about what most babies blurt out first. The [NIDCD's early communication and language milestones](https://www.nidcd.nih.gov/health/speech-and-language) lists the usual suspects: 'Hi,' 'dog,' 'Dada,' and 'Mama' around the first birthday. Sweet, social, and almost useless when your toddler is screaming because snack time ended.

A baby's first words list is built on connection. A starter card stack is built on need. That's the whole difference.

Picture cards skip the cute and go straight to function. Instead of waiting for the most common baby first words to arrive on their own schedule, you hand your kid a way to say *all done*, *more*, or *I want* today. One list is social communication. The other is functional communication, and for a frustrated toddler, requesting beats greeting every time. That gap is exactly why early intervention often starts with graphic symbols instead of vocabulary drills.

### What age first words usually show up

So what age do babies say their first word? It's a range, not a deadline.

Per the NIDCD, most kids land one or two words by their first birthday, and by 15 months they're usually trying one to two beyond *mama* and *dada*. But "usually" hides a lot of wiggle. Plenty of toddlers talk later and turn out perfectly chatty, which is why I never treat a calendar as a verdict.

The question of when babies typically begin to talk matters less than whether your kid has a reason to communicate right now. If you're worried about whether your baby has started talking yet, that's a conversation for your pediatrician or a speech therapist, not a milestone chart. Cards give nonverbal communication a home while you sort out the timeline.

### Cards bridge to speech, not replace it

The fear I hear most: "If I give him a picture, will he ever bother to talk?"

Honest answer, backed by the research. Bondy and Frost, summarizing 25 years of picture exchange, found that using these systems doesn't inhibit speech, it enhances the likelihood that spoken language develops or improves. A card isn't a ceiling. It's a ramp.

Wanting to know [when do babies start talking](/special-needs/communication/pointing-talking) is fair, but speech and symbols grow together, not in competition. Functional communication today builds the pathway for spontaneous communication tomorrow, and a speech therapist can help that generalization stick.

## Print Your Own Cards or Buy a Set

Both work. The real question is how fast you need them.

Printing at home is free, and most families start there. Search for a basic needs communication board printable, print on cardstock, laminate if you can. The graphic symbols you need for a starter set (all done, eat, more, break) are available at no cost on dozens of sites. No laminator on the shelf? [Self-sealing laminating pouches](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FT159ZGT?tag=rosyandhush-20) skip the machine entirely: you line up the card, press it shut with your hands, and that's it, no heat. At 10 mil they hold up to a toddler's grip, and other parents rate them 4.6 stars across 130-plus reviews. Plain paper works too; a caregiver has made perfectly good cards with a marker and index cards. The visual symbols don't have to be beautiful to be understood.

![Parent cutting out and laminating homemade printable PECS communication cards on a kitchen table](./images/want-need-done/parent-cutting-out-and-laminating-homemade-printable-pecs-communication-cards-on-a-kitchen-table-539446b1.webp)

The tradeoff is time. You'll cut, maybe laminate, punch holes, and back each card with a [hook-and-loop dot](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CJG34D6P?tag=rosyandhush-20) so it sticks to a board. One 1,000-piece bag of those dots outlasts every card you'll ever make, and it's earned 4.7 stars over 2,500-plus reviews. All that prep is 30 to 45 minutes you may not have on a Tuesday night. A purchased set comes pre-laminated, color-coded, and sized for small hands. Some include a communication book with dividers already organized by category, which matters once you move past the first five or six cards and into the later instructional phases of PECS.

| | Print at home | [Buy a ready-made set](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08CFNDHYY?tag=rosyandhush-20) |
|---|---|---|
| **Cost** | Free | Check the current price on Amazon |
| **Parents' rating** | n/a | 4.6★, 1,900+ reviews (Amazon's Choice) |
| **Setup time** | 30 to 45 minutes (cut, laminate, punch, velcro) | Ready to use |
| **What you get** | Whatever symbols you print | 27 cards, sized for ages 3+ |
| **Quality** | Works fine; dollar-store laminate holds up | Pre-laminated, color-coded, sized for small hands |
| **Organization** | You build it | Some include a book with dividers by category |
| **Effectiveness** | Same | Same |

Neither choice affects how well the cards work. Eli's first set came off my laser printer on a Saturday morning. We laminated them with dollar-store pouches. He used those cards for two years.

For a deeper look at getting started, the guide on [communication cards](/special-needs/communication/start-using-communication-cards-late-talker) walks through what to introduce first and how to build from there.

## From First Cards to Full AAC

Six cards are a beginning, not a ceiling.

Once your child is exchanging those starter symbols reliably, the communication book grows. You add cards for specific foods, for favorite activities, for people they love. Over a few months a kid who handed you a single "all done" icon can navigate a whole page of symbols, picking what they need without a meltdown to ask for it. That shift in self-advocacy is quiet, but it's real.

- **Stay with picture exchange.** Many kids use it for years, and there's no reason to push past what's working.
- **Move to [aac devices](/special-needs/communication/pecs-vs-communication-cards-vs-aac).** A natural next step when a child is ready for more vocabulary and faster output. The goal isn't the format; it's independence in communication, the ability to make a need understood without depending on someone to guess right.

Eli still reaches for a physical "break" card on loud days, even though he talks now. The card is faster than finding the words when he's already starting to overload. Augmentative and alternative communication doesn't replace what a child can do. It fills the gaps when the other tools aren't accessible in the moment.

If you want to keep building from here, [our full library of communication and social skills guides](/special-needs/communication) covers what comes next.