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Free First-Then Board: Pick Two Cards, Hand Over the Phone

Pick what comes first and what comes next. Your child taps the cards, the board can read them aloud, and nothing leaves your device.

First-then board

First , then .

Tap the pink words to change them

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What comes first?

The thing to do now. Or use your own photo: it stays on this device.

First

And then?

What they get to do next. Or use your own photo.

Then

Cut the two cards apart and stick them on a board.

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Say it once, out loud: "First brushing teeth, then a book." Then be quiet and let the board do the talking. Put it up before the hard thing, not in the middle of it.

— Nora

How to use it

  1. Tap the pink word after “First” and pick what happens now. Then tap the word after “then” and pick what comes next. You can use your own photo for either one.
  2. Hand the phone or tablet to your child, or press Full screen so the board fills the whole display.
  3. When the first thing is done, your child taps the first card. It turns green and the second card lights up. Tapping that one ends the board.
  4. Want a timer on the first card? Turn it on in More options and choose how many minutes. It runs quietly. There’s no sound at the end, just the card lighting up.
  5. Start over puts both cards back. You can also print the board and cut the cards apart.

Why two cards

A full day of pictures is a lot to look at. Two cards are quick to read, and they answer the question your child is really asking: how long, and then what? I use the same words every time, “first shoes, then outside”, and I say them once, before the hard part starts.

If you’ve never made one, I wrote a step-by-step guide to a printable first-then board. It covers where to hang it and what to say.

What goes under “Then”

Pick something your child wants and you’re happy to give. If you pick a snack, a drink or the bathroom, the board shows a short note: those aren’t things to earn. They’re part of the day. That’s a rule I follow at home, not a number from a study.

If your child is learning to ask for things, the difference between a want, a need and a “done” card may be a good next read. Starting communication cards with a late talker goes through the first week.

Everything stays on your device

Your cards, your photo and the little checkmarks are saved in this browser only. Nothing is uploaded and there’s no sign-up. If you share the phone with a babysitter, Clear saved settings at the bottom of the page puts everything back the way it was.

The board is a tool for ordinary days. For a child who works with a speech or occupational therapist, the therapist’s plan comes first.

A few things that make it easier

You can run this board from a phone with nothing else. If you'd like one for the wall too, these are the extras I'd look at.

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Pictures: Phosphor Icons (MIT license).

Questions parents ask me about this

What is a first-then board?

It's two pictures side by side: what your child does first, and what they get to do next. Seeing the second picture tells them the first one has an end. You can make one from paper, or use the tool above on a phone or tablet.

How do I use the board with my child?

Say it once, out loud: first this, then that. Then let the cards do the talking. Your child taps the first card when it's done, the second one lights up, and they tap that when they get to it. Put the board up before the hard thing, not in the middle of it.

Can I use my own photos?

Yes. Pick "Your own photo" at the bottom of either list. The photo is shrunk and kept in this browser only. It is never uploaded, and you can put a word under it in More options.

Can the board read the cards out loud?

Yes, with the voice your phone or tablet already has. Tap the speaker on a card or tap the card itself. If your device has no voice, the option says so and the speaker buttons disappear.

What should I put under "Then"?

Something your child likes that you are happy to give them: a book, a bubble break, a few minutes outside. A snack, a drink or the bathroom are things everyone needs, so I keep those as plain steps and not as something to earn. The board shows a short note when you pick one.

Does it work without the internet?

Once the page has loaded, yes. Nothing on this board is sent anywhere, and your choices are saved in this browser on this device only.

Keep reading

The routines behind this tool, from the blog.

Written by

Nora Hayes

Mom of two and a former preschool aide. I share the screen-free sensory play and calm-down ideas I test at my own kitchen table, plus what the moms in my little meet-up swear by. A parent passing on what works, not a doctor or a therapist.

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